It is said that ‘women are their own worst enemies’ and this is largely true. Behind the downfall of a woman is another woman. As we celebrate this year’s International Women’s day with the theme: Be Bold for Change, my question to you dear sister is: what change are you driving?
The IWD has identified the following ways in which we can #Beboldforchange:
- I’ll challenge bias and inequality
- I’ll campaign against violence
- I’ll forge women’s advancement
- I’ll celebrate women’s achievement
- I’ll champion women’s education
Visit the IWD page to pledge to be Bold for change.
A lot of us might say all of the things on there are beyond my control. That may be so, but the things within your control, how have you changed the status?
- Things like the way you treat your subordinates (female bosses are the most difficult to manage)
- It’s also in the way you treat others less privileged than you
- How about the way you treat your daughters and sisters-in-law (let’s not get started on the mother-daughter-in-law thingy)
If you really examined it, you will see that it’s not so difficult to stand for change. Like the hymn Jesus bids us shine by Susan Warner says;
Jesus bids us shine,
With a pure, clear light,
Like a little candle,
Burning in the night.
In this world is darkness,
So let us shine–
You in your small corner,
And I in mine.
We can shine, change our little or small world. Challenge gender bias, inequality, campaign against gender based violence; be a woman’s woman! Have the back of your sisters the way guys have each other’s back; so when we speak men will listen and not sneer at us.
As we join the conversations and narratives tomorrow in the pursuit of gender equality and fight against cultural biases that inhibit our growth and potential, let us remember that change begins with how we as women see, treat and fight for other women. Change does not just begin with us, it begins when we change!